Date Online and Have Fun

All people that are online are there probably after a long day of work or probably not, but for sure are there to relax and have a great time.

I am not saying those are not looking for a partner, but as you are going in a bar on online dating sites you are looking for easy, positive discussions and fun as it is possible.

Being positive, relaxed and confident will attract people and will make them to keep talking with you. So forget about your problems and concentrate on things that make you feel good. πŸ™‚

Some people out there are not very happy and you could meet some of them which will start to tell you all the problems they have.

Distract the one you are talking online from the negative discussion and make him/her to laugh.
Telling good jokes is the best way to do this and is easier for you, so learn some if you are not that joker tip of guy.

If you are seeing that they are persisting to be pessimist and keep telling you how unhappy the life can be, just say: “Goodbye” and don’t let them to put you too in a bad mood.

One of the advantages of online dating is that you can change your “partner” more than once during one evening. I am not telling you to do this for no reason, but until you find someone who can make you enjoy that evening and not waste your time.

After you meet a person compatible you can take your discussion to another level, more private but still funny and relaxed. You even can talk about important things, about your families, your goals in life or even about your future children – not being to serious about that πŸ™‚

The idea is to be positive in all what you are telling and do not rush things. The best relationships are eveloping in time. Without you realize, talking with someone daily you two will become closer and closer and a date face to face will become something normal.

Love – Is Your Partner Your Soul mate?

To be in love is a divine feeling. To love and get love in return is for few lucky souls. If you are one who has found love that is great. Is your partner your soul mate? Your love will one day wither away. The days of bliss that you are enjoying will become a memory and the new realities of future may prove to be not very attractive. But if you are soul mates, you both will be able to enjoy life together for a much longer time.

Before we discuss about what is a mate and what is a soul mate, let me ask you one simple question. Do you have a passion in life- anything that you love doing and enjoy? If yes, does your love partner share that interest? What if he/she does not? Let us talk about that.

After sometime the physical attraction will reduce. The romantic feelings will get battered with time, but your passion for what you enjoy doing will not reduce. If your partner shares the same passion, you will enjoy doing that together, otherwise, you will look for mates with whom you can share your passion and slowly drift away from your partner.

This is not uncommon. Look at most of the wealthy people. Their main passion is to make money and become more powerful. The process of making money thrills them. What of their partners? That is why you will find marriages getting broken rapidly with such groups. Before you decide on a partner, try and get one who shares your passion and who can be your soul mate in true sense. Your relationship will survive much longer.