All people that are online are there probably after a long day of work or probably not, but for sure are there to relax and have a great time.
I am not saying those are not looking for a partner, but as you are going in a bar on online dating sites you are looking for easy, positive discussions and fun as it is possible.
Being positive, relaxed and confident will attract people and will make them to keep talking with you. So forget about your problems and concentrate on things that make you feel good. 🙂
Some people out there are not very happy and you could meet some of them which will start to tell you all the problems they have.
Distract the one you are talking online from the negative discussion and make him/her to laugh.
Telling good jokes is the best way to do this and is easier for you, so learn some if you are not that joker tip of guy.
If you are seeing that they are persisting to be pessimist and keep telling you how unhappy the life can be, just say: “Goodbye” and don’t let them to put you too in a bad mood.
One of the advantages of online dating is that you can change your “partner” more than once during one evening. I am not telling you to do this for no reason, but until you find someone who can make you enjoy that evening and not waste your time.
After you meet a person compatible you can take your discussion to another level, more private but still funny and relaxed. You even can talk about important things, about your families, your goals in life or even about your future children – not being to serious about that 🙂
The idea is to be positive in all what you are telling and do not rush things. The best relationships are eveloping in time. Without you realize, talking with someone daily you two will become closer and closer and a date face to face will become something normal.